You can make up a list of demands when looking for a significant other, or a wish list in a potential mate but those things are all external to you. For example, needs to be X tall, needs to make X a year, needs to drive X, must like ferris wheels, long walks on the beach, not live with his mother, etc.
The missing piece is YOU and what’s driving the needs on those lists and ultimately the decisions you make. If your decisions are driven by fear, or a need for safety or a desire to be loved and taken care of, then your list becomes flexible, it becomes malleable to fit your dysfunctional need. Coming from an external place will never provide you with the things you’re looking for.
Only by going inward and listening to what your heart is telling you and being steadfast and unbending in its pursuit, will what you find be EXACTLY what you need.
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