Insisting that other people change, or waiting for other people to change is a form of denial. It’s a denial of the reality that the only thing we can change is ourselves.
What’s interesting is that the more we insist that it’s the other people that need to change the more it’s true that it’s we that need to change. So much easier and less scary to put the onus on the other person though, isn’t it?
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