Sometimes doing nothing is the most loving thing you can do for yourself. We oftentimes forget that we have the choice of doing nothing, of pulling away to collect our thoughts, to touch base with what feels right for us before making a decision. Or, you can defer making a decision until you can say with confidence which way it is you want to go.
If you are feeling pressured to make a decision, take that as a sign that you need to pull back and give it some space, give yourself some time to reflect, or get more information, or talk to a mentor. If the person cares enough, they’ll wait.
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