The epitome of a luxurious life is one lived free of lies and secrets. Both are toxic and lead to chronic pain and suffering. Joy is hard to come by when this type of toxicity rules your life.
Whatever the reason lies and secrets entered your life it was probably in the hopes of alleviating pain, shame, or solving a problem. The irony is that lying and keeping secrets ALWAYS produces the exact opposite of what you’re trying to achieve.
The hard part about coming clean is that you have to be willing to handle whatever fallout there might be. And while there will be strong emotions to deal with at the beginning, people who truly care and respect you will still be there on the other side.